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Wednesday, January 27, 2016

Adventure 2 Part 1 - Christchurch 31 December - 2 January

As we were spending 7 weeks in New Zealand (owing to amazing airfares as long as we stayed that long) we decided to have a mini-break on the South Island at New Year.

Nic helped us book and was very envious as we set off :-)

We have visited the South Island before - we went with Nic and Ray in 2010.  But this time we visited some of the places we haven't been to before, as well as visiting Christchurch again.

The last time we visited Christchurch was before the devastating earthquakes.  A lot was different, and yet a lot was the same.  The adaptability of people and animals is amazing.

This picture gallery shares a few of the sights and experiences.

Things that haven't changed

The historic tram still runs through the city - but this time much of the commentary was about the quake and the rebuilding
The beautiful Botanical gardens are still lovely - I thought of my Mom as we walked through the Rose Garden


Punting on the Avon is still a tourist attraction

A lovely sculpture in the gardens

But a lot has changed

Construction everywhere you look
I remember sitting in this street having a drink last time - now it is slowly starting to open after being closed for almost 5 years.
Empty lots and half demolished buildings wait for the infrastructure like water and sewers to be completed before rebuilding can happen.  And of course, wait for money from the relief fund.




The Cathedral

The cathedral stood as a beacon of hope after the first quake, but crumbled in the second.  It has been deconsecrated and as our tram driver said "is now the biggest pigeon loft in the S Hemisphere"

Plans to rebuild have been dogged by controversy and there is still no announcement on what will be done - will it be rebuilt in a modern style or reconstructed as it was?  Who knows?  The Church needs to make up its mind before the CBD dies with the ruins.



Determination and Innovation

The transitional Cathedral is an amazing building made of steel, natural wood, polycarbonate and - yes - cardboard.




We will remember

187 chairs representing each of the people who died in the quake.  A poignant remembrance that their seats will always remain empty.



The First Ruby Date

20 - 22 December 2015

Our first "adventure" was a trip to Wairata - a Farmstay in the Waioeka River Gorge.

Pete wanted to fish, so we left Nic, Ray and the kids at home in Tauranga and drove East through Te Puke, Whakatane, Ohopi, Opotiki and then inland through the gorge.

The view across to White Island between Opotiki and Ohopi

The view from our deck

The Wairata Farmstead was amazing - a little self-contained cabin with bathroom and a cooking corner, a lovely deck looking out over the paddock filled with sheep and beehives, and an amazing river where Pete spent most of his time. I spent my time reading - 5 books in 2 days - granted, some of them were quite short, but still ......




The proprietors, Bob and Mary, are great people - friendly, chatty and mines of information.  Mary even dropped off a recipe for me on the way to work on our last morning.



A highlight was watching the sheepdogs working the stock - sheep and cows - just on the other side of the fence.

Only drawback - the sandflies which loved me.

We will definitely go back the next time we visit New Zealand.




Forty years to celebrate ......

On 11 December 1975 Pete and I got married in St John's Anglican Church, Ixopo.

That wasn't the beginning of "And the Prince and the princess got married and lived happily ever after"  There have been tough times in the last 39 years.  There have been times that stretched and grew us.  There have been heartbreaking losses of the people we have loved all our lives - my mom and dad, Pete's Dad, our beloved grandparents. There has been illness and struggles with jobs. Right now, facing growing old is pretty damn scary.

But there have been times of joy and love which have carried us through the harder times.  There are our children and grandchildren - Sarah, Nic, Riaan, Ray, Sihle, Kevin, Emily and Ben - who give us more happiness than anyone should be allowed to have.  There is our extended family, our friends, treasured work colleagues. There has been adventure and fun - awesome trips to places near and far.

When we reached our Silver Wedding Anniversary, we decided that instead of a party, we'd plan a special trip and had 2 weeks in London - just before Christmas - it was amazing!

So for our 30th, we decided to do something similar.  We were able to stay with a friend of Sarah's and spent 2 weeks in the South of France - we didn't go on our anniversary, because it would have been too cold, but instead, went at the end of the European summer - magic!



When we had been married 35 years, we spent some time in New Zealand with friends who were married 4 days after us, visiting the Taranaki region of the North Island.



So in this 40th year of our marriage, how are we going to celebrate the wonders of such a long term relationship - something that is getting increasingly rarer in the world we live in.

I've been planning for a couple of years - I read an article in an Air New Zealand magazine about a trip from Athens to Istanbul on a small cruise ship and that is what I wanted to do.  Lots of research later and a small cruise ship around Croatia became another possibility.  And it was all over bar the booking.



UNTIL the Rand went into freefall and we had to say that a trip to Europe and Asia was not going to happen this year.

We've kicked around lots of other ideas - Zanzibar, Lamu, Mauritius, other places in Southern Africa like Botswana, Namibia, Swaziland - but this is what we have finally come up with.

40 "adventures" this year - some big, some small, but all mindfully celebrating the "ever after" that we embarked on in 1975.

We've done some already - so watch this space as I chronicle the 40 Ruby dates we're going to have this year.

Sunday, June 2, 2013

A Fortnight on the Coast


This visit to Kenya, I have spent 2 weeks in Mombasa and its environs – most of it out in the field.  I have visited schools in the crowded areas near to the city, and visited schools out in the far reaches of Kilifi county.

The town schools are the usual blend of sandy playgrounds and mango trees, in the midst of high density housing, small shops  and urban agriculture – wherever there is a space, you can see maize growing, poking its way up between the weeds and the garbage – and no doubt, sewage. The schools are amazing places on the whole – enrolment is often in excess of 1000 kids and classes of 60 are common.  The usual glassless windows are ever-present and when it rains hard, it is impossible to hear anything.  Fortunately, the rain is often short lived with gaps of relative calm in between the showers.

The country schools are my favourite – often big classes but not always big schools – only one stream per class.  The ever present mango trees provide shade for classes and meetings, and I am sure, food for the children in the mango season.  Most classrooms are constructed of blocks, but there are some which are still mud and wood.  Some of the classrooms don’t have doors and the window holes are not barred, so teachers find keeping their materials safe a huge challenge. Some classes are held under trees, because there are not enough classrooms, and as usual, the early years classes are left out when it comes to provision of space.  In other schools, the enrolment is double what the classroom space allows, and so there is a double shift - one class comes till 1 and the other works from 1 till 6 – 2 teachers, but only one classroom.

In most schools, the older learners are at school till at least 4, but in one school in the Rubai area, I saw children coming back into class as we left at 4.30.  They are Gr 8s who will sit exams this year, and the children come back to work till 6.30 or 7.00 – sometimes with a teacher and sometimes on their own.  The school has electricity, and most of their homes don’t.

To get to Rubai, you go out on the Nairobi road, dicing with death with the huge lorries carrying shipping containers to and from the Port and to and from Nairobi, and then turn off into gentler, more forgiving dirt roads.  All around are the “shambas” – small farms with their patchwork of maize and vegetables, the mango trees and the palms.  These produce coconuts or palm oil, depending on whether they are tapped or not.  Most of the trees have footholds cut into them.  And there are always the animals – goats roaming freely and cows tied to stakes so they can graze.

I ’ve experienced the rain for the first time.  We had two days of heavy rain – both on days we were travelling to Malindi,  which made roads difficult to navigate – even on the tar road.  The Big Rains have come with a vengeance this year, leaving roads potholed and eaten away at the edges.  It’s even worse in town where there is so much traffic and it is pointless fixing the poitholes till the rains have stopped.  I got wet many times – but the rain is warm and so is the air, so you dry quickly, without getting cold.

The trip up the coast to Malindi was amazing – the road follows the coast and every now and then there are tantalising glimpses of the sea.  You cross the big “creeks” where the rivers come into the sea, and drive across coastal flood plains.  All along the way you see signs to hotels and resorts – Sea Breezes, The Palms and Sea View abound.  We stayed in a Sea View in Malindi  - quite adequate but an African vision of what a luxury hotel is – outdated décor, showers that work or don’t according to their mood, and a “menu” phoned through from the bar – chicken, steak or fish with chips, chapatti (like roti) or ugali (like stywe pap.) 

The seafood in Malindi is wonderful and all harvested fresh from the surrounding coast – delicious prawns, smoked sailfish and crab.  And the grilled red snapper was delicious at the beachfront “I love pizza” restaurant we ate at.

Coast people are warm and friendly, spending a lot of time on “people” things – greeting, “appreciating” everything done by anyone, discussing and making sure everyone’s point of view is heard.  It takes a LONG time and trainings are quite long and drawn out – but it seems to be working.


Despite a terrible, recurring bout of tummy troubles and the dreadful loos in some of the schools, I had a wonderful time on the coast and can’t wait to return.




Sunday, April 21, 2013

And the rain came down ......

We set off for Auckland on a sunny-ish Sunday afternoon, looking forward to time seeing some of the sights of the big city with our good friends, Richard and Vanessa. By the time we'd completed the two and a half hour drive, the clouds had drawn in and by the middle of the night, it was bucketing down.  And now, a week later, it's bucketing down again.

We spent our time in Auckland chatting, drinking coffee in coffee shops in shopping malls, and going on an intrepid adventure on State Highway 1 to the Kauri Museum near Dargaville about two and a half hours north of Auckland.  The rain lifted briefly and we braved it up One Tree Hill to look over a windswept city.  It was so windy, I thought Vanessa might blow away.


Back home in Tauranga we had a brief dry morning and got all the washing dry while keeping an eye on the sky, but since then it's been pretty wet! On the news tonight we heard there had been 225mm in 2 days.  Last night Nic had to go out to a school dance and there was flooding all over the town. Some roads were closed, one of her colleagues had their house flooded up above step level.

The rain is relentless - huge downpours with wind at times and some thunder and lightning  but mostly just sheets and sheets of rain.  It feels like the sort of rain we get at home during a thunderstorm - but here it goes on and on, day after day and it doesn't end and then dry up.

Nic says it often goes on for 2 or 3 days and you just get used to it. When she moved to NZ Ray told her that it rained for 2 weeks and she was really glad that he had remembered wrong!

Emily has been a bit wild and we realised that she was suffering from cabin fever, so Nic dressed her in her "silly Billy's" which are waterproof dungarees and her rain jacket and off she went, crawling across the grass, playing with the ball and the cat. Lovely!

Rain should clear tomorrow and we hope to see some blue sky again.

Thursday, April 11, 2013

Pointed hills and postboxes

My cousin Felicity is writing a series of posts all starting with letters of the alphabet. I'm not planning to go through the alphabet but a drive yesterday gave me the idea for this post and I liked the alliteration ......

This time round we are not doing any real sightseeing, but spending most of our time close to home in Tauranga, getting to see as much of Nic, Ray and of course, Emily as possible. So the sights we are seing are closer to home - when we go for a walk, when we drive out to where Pete is fishing and when we drive around be ause Em has fallen asleep in the car and needs to be given as much chance to sleep as possible.

Yesterday we drove home from Bethlehem where we had lunch by a very long and circuitous route - via a country road called Poripori Rd.  It took us deep into the countryside behind and above Tauranga where the suburbs give way to lifestyle sections ( what we would call smallholdings) and these lifestyle sections give way to farms.  We saw sheep - lots of sheep - and grazing land and orchards.  Post boxes are clustered at the end of roads, bright and plastic, ready to receive their mail from the rural mail vans. Post in the town is delivered by bicycle but out in the rural areas a post van fetches and delivers mail. Beehives, each in a different, faded color are piled on top of each other like blocks of flats, and everywhere, amongst the trees, you see the exotic looking tree ferns.

But to get to the pointy hills - this time I have been struck by the sharpness of the hills and valleys - flying from Auckland I noticed how steep and sharp the topography is. Hills have sharp edges, valleys and ridges slope suddenly down from sudden outcrops and everything looks defined. I think about the rolling hills of the Midlands and around Ixopo and I realize how much older South Africa is geologically - the hills have had time to smooth and become more rounded in a way the countryside here hasn't - this is a much newer country.

To use that awful trendy word - the New Zealand countryside is edgier than the part of South Africa where I live.

So - pointy hills and postboxes - and I look forward to more drives to see some more of them.

Saturday, April 6, 2013

The end of summer

Daylight saving ended today inNew Zealand. We went to bed at the normal time, but when we woke up it was an hour later than we felt it ought to be. The clock next to our bed said the "normal" time but the cell phones had changed themselves to an hour later .

Strangely, it has suddenly got cold.  Yesterday it rained and was freezing and in the afternoon there was a sudden cold shower - they had forecast hail, but that was it - slushy rain. We slept with duvets last night for the first time and Mo, Nic and Ray's cat, was in her element - she snuggled up in bed with us and then when we got up to play with Emily, she snuggled up in Nic's bed.  The sun shone today but there was an icy wind, and when we walked around the Mount, it was quite chilly - until the exertion kicked in!

Em had freezing little feet and we had to put socks and slippers on her and went and bought her some sneakers to wear to Daycare in the mornings.

From Facebook I see that the first snow has fallen on the Berg, and talking to Kevin, we see him bundled up and chilly.  So the socks we collected for Maundy Thursday will benefit someone from Springs of Hope this winter.  Rod says there are about 10 dozen pairs, so there will be some warm feet in Sobantu.

So summer is over and we wonder what climate change will bring us this winter.